Sabtu, 24 Juli 2010

Every school have senior students and junior students. The relation between the senior and junior not always good, like have a friend in the same years. Senior is a nightmare because they do the bullying to the junior. They will do anything they like to the junior. This act of bullying because of the position, environment and lack of parent's attention can make the juniors fell into depression. In this case, I will talked about the act of bullying happen and example from causes.

First, the position of the senior is the most important part. Most of the senior are older than junior and of course, they are more powerful than the junior is. In this condition, the junior can't resist them; they only can obey. Beside that, they want to be respected because they feel that senior is a king and junior is just ordinary people. So, they must respect to the senior where ever and when ever. For the example, if the senior walk in the hall, the junior must say hi and bow head. If they didn't do it, they will get punishment.

Second, environment also causes the act of bullying. If they started hang out with wrong friends, maybe the character of this person will be change and can be the one who do the bullying to the next student. Usually when they hang out together, there is no supervision in the school. The supervisor in the school is teacher because they responsible to the student activities. There is no excuse for the student, weather he or she a teacher's, head master's children or not. Rules are rules so, rules should be enforced fairly and as effectively as possible. For example, all of the school have a group of organizations that are not organized and prohibited by school. Still they make these groups in order to monitor the activities of the junior if there was a violation of the rule or not

third is the last but not least, the most important things that affect to teenager development are lack of parent's attention. In this case, parent is a very important role in the development of they children. However, there are some parents who work so busy that they rarely meet with they children. This is a gap where children feel outcast and look for other activities. in addition, divorce also support change in teenager's attitude . stress level due to this problem can cause teenager to seek they identity in another way. For the example, the senior get depression because the problem in their home, so they vent their emotions on the junior.

The conclusion from this problem is parents should watch the attitude, behavior and environment of the children so they will not be lost. For the student, the act of the bullying because of the position, environment and lack of parent's attention can make the junior feel depression. I hope next they won't be another case like this.

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